After finally losing the body fat, a new insecurity developed. I began to compare myself to what I saw in magazines and online. My lack of strength and confidence in my body lead to fear. I was afraid of the world because I felt weak. My own self-dialogue became the biggest bully.
I learned everything I could about exercise and fitness: I lost the body fat and gained 40 pounds of muscle. Yet, the feeling of not being enough never left. Motivation became hard to sustain. So I became a massage therapist and traveled the world learning from pain experts: I thought that more education and certifications would make me more worthwhile.
From damaging romantic relationships to unaddressed issues with my parents, I realized that my quest for happiness was actually a search to become harmonious with myself first, then others. What started as a journey to BeFit became a lifelong journey of adding new things that worked, subtracting old things that didn’t, dividing my time between everything that served me, and multiplying the time I invested into things I loved with people I love.
The math of this journey to become a harmonious happy person in the world gave me Beometry. It’s my incredible joy to share it with you.
I believe when we subtract judgement and pain, add love and kindness, multiply passion and compassion, and divide to share with others, then we can have everything we desire.
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